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Mar. 10th, 2006 12:21 amThose lovely douchebags in North Dakota. Here's what state senator Bill Napoli says about possible rape exceptions for the abortion ban:
A real-life description to me would be a rape victim, brutally raped, savaged. The girl was a virgin. She was religious. She planned on saving her virginity until she was married. She was brutalized and raped, sodomized as bad as you can possibly make it, and is impregnated. I mean, that girl could be so messed up, physically and psychologically, that carrying that child could very well threaten her life.
(Meaning: unless you're a born-again virgin, you deserve to be raped, for once you've surrendered your maidenhead, it's a free-for-all)
Ah, but we do have a means of exacting a little revenge on Mr. Napoli (legally, I mean. I would really like to shoot this guy's...well, I'm sure you already have your plans a-brewin')
A suggestion from Smart Bitches, Trashy Books:
I’m thinking we should do to Napoli what Dan Savage did to Rick Santorum. The nifty thing is, Napoli himself has provided an excellent definition. I propose the following entry be entered into the lexicon:
Time for google-bombing: Bill Napoli
A real-life description to me would be a rape victim, brutally raped, savaged. The girl was a virgin. She was religious. She planned on saving her virginity until she was married. She was brutalized and raped, sodomized as bad as you can possibly make it, and is impregnated. I mean, that girl could be so messed up, physically and psychologically, that carrying that child could very well threaten her life.
(Meaning: unless you're a born-again virgin, you deserve to be raped, for once you've surrendered your maidenhead, it's a free-for-all)
Ah, but we do have a means of exacting a little revenge on Mr. Napoli (legally, I mean. I would really like to shoot this guy's...well, I'm sure you already have your plans a-brewin')
A suggestion from Smart Bitches, Trashy Books:
I’m thinking we should do to Napoli what Dan Savage did to Rick Santorum. The nifty thing is, Napoli himself has provided an excellent definition. I propose the following entry be entered into the lexicon:
napoli (not to be confused with the proper noun, which indicates the Italian city)
Function: verb
Inflected Form(s): napolied
Pronunciation: nA’poli1. To brutalize and rape, sodomize as bad as you can possibly make it, a young, religious virgin woman who was saving herself for marriage. 2. To hella rape somebody.
Etymology: From State Senator Bill Napoli’s (R-SD) words on an acceptable description of rape that would merit an exemption from South Dakota’s abortion ban.
Time for google-bombing: Bill Napoli
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Date: 2006-03-10 05:35 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-03-10 01:40 pm (UTC)*shudder*
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Date: 2006-03-12 06:12 pm (UTC)Sing
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Date: 2006-03-10 02:00 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-03-10 11:34 am (UTC)I'm not about that. I'm pro-Choice politically, but if you're going to try to sell me abortion and your selling point is life begins at conception, you cannot make those rape/incest exceptions to me because a life is a life no matter how it is conceived.
Either way though, I'm not a fan of this bill, but I doubt it'll stand for long. The higher courts will strike it down.
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Date: 2006-03-10 12:46 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-03-11 05:10 am (UTC)I look at incest and rape pregancies as resulting from a crime, not an accident.
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Date: 2006-03-11 11:36 am (UTC)But I really don't think this bill has legs. Precedent is still Roe v. Wade, and unless the lower courts rule in favor of the bill, I don't see it reaching the Supreme Court. And even if it did, and even with Roberts and Alito, they're still going to lose 5-4 because the only two others who would be in their corner is Thomas and Scalia.
And honestly, I think there would be enough women in this country to get the republicans out of office nationwide should the bill stand.
Maybe that's highly naive of me, but I don't understand why people don't see this as a horrendously bad idea.
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Date: 2006-03-11 01:08 pm (UTC)This is a much more complicated picture than it was in the early '70s when it was originally decided. I'm looking forward to seeing what happens with it.
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Date: 2006-03-11 01:16 pm (UTC)And it's not even for pre-marital sex. What about the married women who don't want kids or who can't afford them? Same thing.
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Date: 2006-03-11 02:28 pm (UTC)You are absolutely correct in everything you say. :)
I also admire the Pope for his pro-life stance. He is also against the Death Penalty, which truly makes him Pro-Life.
You don't hear the religious anti-abortionists talking much about married women who don't want kids. Even if they do, married women are supposed to hear the same message. The answer to the question within the issue goes right back to the same thing: Accept what god gives you or keep your legs shut.
In the case of rape and incest, a woman doesn't have a choice in the matter. That's why the religionists can allow the exceptions there.
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Date: 2006-03-11 03:38 pm (UTC)Rape, there's definitely no choice--that's the very definition of the word. Incest . . . that's a bit trickier. There is such a thing as consensual incest, but we're not supposed to admit/talk about that. But either way, there's still a life involved. I know there are exception to murder such as self-defense, but that's usually against the perpetrator. This baby is anything but.
If the belief is birth begins at conception, the circumstances of said conception then become irrelevant to the allowance of an abortion, right?
I'm not saying, thus, it should be Pro-Choice, I'm just saying if you're going to be pro-Life, you have to be aware that you poke holes in the argument by making such allowances. If the pro-Life's main concern is the baby, then make it about the baby, not a moral statement about the mother, which that's what it seems like to me to be.
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Date: 2006-03-10 01:35 pm (UTC)I'm a bit dismayed at the idiots the Democrats are picking to run against the morons in PA. The main candidate they are running against Mr. Icky-Stuff is someone who seems to be pandering to the Religious Right as well.
I'm not sure why, but I am far less concerned about the abortion debate as I am about the science and speech debates that are going on. With the advent of RU-386 and the other chemical methods of upsetting pregnancy and making it go buh-bye, I can only see this turn into a new medical privacy issue. Especially in the age of electronic data.
They will regret this.
BTW, my mom was a nurse. In the bad old days of illegal abortions and sterilization, she worked for a doctor (who is long dead now) who provided them - Free of charge. If a woman came to him in distress over a pregnancy, he helped her. He treated women like adults who knew what they wanted for their own lives, and for their own bodies. Not like playthings for the masses to demand obedience of each and every one.
Not a single person in that office would have said a word to law enforcement about it. Stuff like that commands loyalty when repressive fascism squeezes individual rights and puts the individual under mob rule. And yeah, this was during the McCarthy years too. Wear that hat, eh?
Those doctors will continue to exist even if Roe v. Wade is overturned. I'm not so sure that it will be though. The financial reward will have to be much greater for it to be overturned. I'm not getting the dollar angle yet.
I'm not sure if Napoli will work with that. Santorum SOUNDS like something disgusting and it doesn't have any connotation attached. Napoli already has an Italian regional thing and it doesn't fit. I clicked anyway.
I looked on the source code - Did she do Meta-Tags? Coz I didn't see any.
Re: Long-ass answer with no spell check
Date: 2006-03-11 05:17 am (UTC)I don't know about the coding - I just made a link. :B
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Date: 2006-03-11 02:08 pm (UTC)The advent of chemical abortions has changed the landscape quite a bit. I don't think that the divide between safe abortions and back-alley abortions will be as wide this time. There is FAR more awareness. People talk about it now - They didn't even breathe a word of it 'back in the day'.
No one talked about abortion before the late '60s and '70s and the advent of the women's movement. It simply "didn't happen". And if something bad happened to a woman, the woman deserved it. That was the prevailing attitude and it was accepted. Single women didn't keep children and accept public assistance. It simply wasn't done.
Ha.
You won't see that now, that's for sure. Now there will be women PUBLICLY and loudly driving to Canada and going to states where they can get abortions. There will be abortion trains. And on and on. It's gonna get noisy.
I'm waiting to see where this one goes.
There will always be home abortions for the women who know about herbal miscarriages. They aren't a sure thing, but they do pack a punch.
This will also change the landscape of IVF and Infertility treatments. As I said above, this issue is far more complicated than it was in the early '70s. If life begins at conception, (or even before according to some doctrine and dogma), what are the implications?
Of course, I am an extremist. Life begins when a child can sustain itself outside the womb. I don't argue abortion anymore either way. It's a useless task. I have extreme views on the subject and they are all in one direction. I got fed up with the middle ground in this one a long time ago. I have nothing but admiration for the people who are still fighting with the philosophical and logical debate points. They are the interesting ones.
It's the religionists who are trying to insert their punishment for original sin into law that piss me off. They are the ones I don't even bother talking to anymore.
Sorry about my long-windedness. I hardly ever talk about this subject. I think about it, but I hardly ever engage in discussions about it. It's sorta useless to engage the religionists, and they are the loudest, so I just ignore them over this issue.
Run Away With Me?
Date: 2006-03-12 07:07 am (UTC)I remember reading an old criminal investigations handbook, and under the section on dealing with rape victims, it cautioned the investigator to carefully question the victim (as to her previous sexual activity, etc.) to be sure that she wasn't claiming rape so she could have an abortion. -.-
I've been tickled at the guy who's suing not to have to pay child support because his girlfriend "tricked" him into having unprotected sex. Let's see if the double standard holds up - he shouldn't have had sex if he wasn't willing to accept the consequences, eh?
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Date: 2006-03-12 02:24 pm (UTC)I remember the era and that rape story fits in perfectly. That era is idealized by so many (*cough*Neo-Con*cough*), but it was not an ideal time. The only people who had it relatively good were Christian white males who were happy with a stereotypical family structure.
I think that there should be some sort of protection for males - It's true that they get the short end of the stick (*cough*) on reproductive rights. There should be some way for them to say that they want to have a child - That they are against a woman having their child aborted. It is half of their genetic code, after all.
Hopefully science will catch up in this area and someday we can extract the embryo and raise it in an artificial environment. (In vast fields of pods, tended by giant machines, on farms of humans that produce electricity. *eep*!) Then the fathers can have the children if they desire and the mothers will be unable to "trick" them.
The Anti-Abortion crowd can just STFU after that. Overpopulation be damned. They can have all the unwanted kids to raise themselves, support them, and make sure that they have the best of everything until they reach the age of majority. That will be interesting, no?
But - tricked into unproteced sex? Dude. Nice try. No one gets "tricked" into unprotected sex. Fucking idiot.
Do you really think there is still a double standard in BC? I don't think there is a double standard on that one now. AIDs took care of that. I thought that was starting to fade away in the late '80s.
Re: Run Away With Me?
Date: 2006-03-18 06:17 am (UTC)Re: Run Away With Me?
Date: 2006-03-18 01:20 pm (UTC)Here's the secret word of the day: Vascectomy.
If a guy really doesn't want to have kids, he should do the Vas thing. Or make sure he wears a raincoat. The same goes for women and protection.
There's no stigma attached to bastards anymore. I'm not sure why people are still behaving as if there were.
Re: Run Away With Me?
Date: 2006-03-18 01:34 pm (UTC)*heddesk*
Re: Run Away With Me?
Date: 2006-03-12 02:58 pm (UTC)I've also been tempted to post about that story about the guy trying to sue for "men's rights". If he's not going to cover his own bases and use birth control, then he's partly responsible and does indeed owe support costs.
As for me, when I was younger I would have definitely considered abortion in my options; when the fiancé and I had a condom break on us I went to Student Health for emergency contraception immediately. (I was in grad school and we were poor.) Now that I've had a child, I doubt I would abort unless tests showed that the fetus had major genetic damage that would result in extreme disability.
But there's no way I would be arrogant enough to dictate someone else's life by saying they had to go through a pregnancy that wasn't intended or have a child they couldn't support. And if the religious conservatives are so hot to prevent abortions, then they need to accept full-disclosure sex ed as a preventative measure. Not much has been made of the fact that abortion numbers declined during the Clinton administration and has been steadily rising since Bush and the era of "abstinence-only" sex-ed programs in schools.
Re: Run Away With Me?
Date: 2006-03-18 01:32 pm (UTC)You are absolutely right about the abortion statistics. One of the reasons is also the economy. It sucks despite the manipulated numbers that are being thrown at us. Hope in the future is poor with wars being fought on multiple fronts. There are so many reasons that abortions are rising.
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Date: 2006-03-10 07:40 pm (UTC)This is my personal view on abortion (meaning as it applies to myself:
I would never have an abortion whether I was raped, or even to save my own life if I was given a choice between myself or my child provided I knew there were people like my husband or family that would take care of the baby. I would be willing to risk death for a child because I see abortion as a form of murder.
But on a global and humanitarian scale:
I agree that every woman has the right to control her own body and what it contains. And I also think that if abortions are banned, women will go back to almost killing themselves to achieve their desired end. One life lost is better than two any day. Back alley abortions caused thousands of deaths before they legalised abortion. Probably many more than that.
So in conclusion, whilst I see abortion as something that deeply grieves me, I know that I don't have the right to tell someone that they aren't allowed to do it because I don't agree with it. I don't think anyone has that right.
Sing`
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Date: 2006-03-11 05:57 am (UTC)But then again, as a person who's been raped, the idea that I could have been compelled to raise any offspring resulting from that - that makes me feel ill. (I don't believe in adoption, so there would be no other avenue for me) The abuse/abandonment issues alone are terrifying.
I think I would have less issue with abortion law if there was a corresponding increase in safer sex education and availability of birth control methods. Not that that will happen soon. :\
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Date: 2006-03-11 02:15 pm (UTC)*LOL*
If I got pregnant at my [egg] age I think we would have to call the god-squad cuz it would be a miracle.
Peri-menopause is a cruel and wonderful mistress. :/
I would have less issues with abortion laws if vasectomies were normal procedures on all male citizens at puberty. They can have the procedure undone when they reach the ADULT decision that they are ready and willing to take on the responsibility of having children.
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Date: 2006-03-11 02:55 pm (UTC)I don't think I could hold it against the child. I've made peace enough with my own abusers from childhood that I think I have it in me to forgive a child who has done no wrong. But I do also believe in adoption as an alternative. Especially in cases where college girls use abortion as a form of birth control. (Or in cases where, like my uncle's ex-wife, it is used as a form of birth control to cover various extra-marital affairs. She had 11 abortions over a 10 year course of time and still squeezed three live children in there.)
But I also know that not everyone is me! It's taken a lot of deep thought and working through issues on my part to be who I am. I don't expect anyone else to have my views or opinions, and I think that is something that the lawmakers (especially the up-on-their-high-horse uber-Christian male and female ones) need to keep in mind.
It's pretty much the same way I feel about drugs and prostitution: you don't have a right to tell other people what they can do with their bodies, even if it's something you don't particularly agree with.
Sing