*cringes* *blushes*

[quidditchgrrl]

Okay, I have a question that is waaaay tmi, intimate, what have you.

It's a female issue, but fellas, feel free to respond

Okay, in some smut novels and a lot of badfic, the female tends to, uh, gush...literally. Like, she's so aroused that it's "dripping" or running down her thighs or somesuch. Not from G-spot manipulation or "female ejaculation," but as a result of typical, uh, relations.

I ask you: has that ever happened to you?

And I tell you: that's never happened to me, even when I was on FIYAH.

Just, you know, wondering how common this is.



Feel free to respond anonymously; I don't have the l337 skillz to track with IP, so it's not off, but I gotta know!

Comments

[avidbeader.livejournal.com]

Hmm...not to the extent that is mentioned in such fics, I don't think, but I've had the husband comment on a regular basis about the ...ambient moisture. XD

[hermorrine.livejournal.com]

I wouldn't say I've ever actually ejaculated, but I've known women who swore that they do. *shrugs* It's been fairly well accepted as fact by the scientific community, both in sexual and women's health, so I wouldn't say it's common, but it's real.

[photosinensis.livejournal.com]

As far as my research goes, there's a reason for Astroglide.

But that's just from research in the sex practices of college students. They could have been lying to me, but I doubt it.

But yeah, I've seen the badfic. Not so much with the dollar store smut novels, though, as I tend not to read them. I get such precious book reading time that I don't waste it on that.

[merrydrought.livejournal.com]

I am such a whore for TMI. "TMI cut! MUST CLICK!" Fast like lightning.

No, that's never happened to me, aha. I can't even imagine being that wet. Is it possible at all? Hmm.

[allichan.livejournal.com]

The vagina lubricates naturally during arousal to accomodate the penis. Excess wetness is acutally a problem because it decreases stimulation for both parties (you need some friction!) I've never had it so that it's actually running like a river, but there are times that are wetter than others.

Me thinks in smut novels (and bad fic) it's just the author exaggerating (like when the girl comes from no clitoral stimulation, the guy has a 12 inch penis and both parties come like five times in a row exactly at the same time. :B)

[allichan.livejournal.com]

Seriously, wikipedia will answer any question:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginal_lubrication

[roguebitch.livejournal.com]

I've been known to leave a wet spot of my own, but I've never ejaculated and never had it "flowing like a river" or dripping or anything. But YMMV.

[lilycat81.livejournal.com]

No way. And, while I appreciate the fact that it might be possible, I do have to snort when it's treated as something totally out of the ordinary. As in, oh yeah, "her release," just like "his release."

Except not. *eyeroll*

[teshara.livejournal.com]

Nope, but I've noticed it a lot in porn these days so I'm assuming it's a new impossible thing we're expected to do.

[allichan.livejournal.com]

Tee hee!

[quidditchgrrl.livejournal.com]

I had a bad feeling about that. Yargh.

[twistedrecesses.livejournal.com]

Same, although oddly enough this is paired with my body's inability to produce enough lube at the beginning of sex.

[nmalfoy.livejournal.com]

It's never happened to me.

[sadslacker.livejournal.com]

I was with a girl who did, and she gave me no warning the first time. It kinda freaked me out. It definitely wasn't urine though, which is what alot of people try to attribute it to.

[thalialunacy.livejournal.com]

Ditto on both counts, actually. :nod:

[hoblik.livejournal.com]

i love your icon.

[hoblik.livejournal.com]

no experience in the field, but the comments were an interesting read.

[avidbeader.livejournal.com]

But...but...it failed me when I wanted to find out what Madonna loops are! (obscure hairstyle reference in Agatha Christie)

[rachet.livejournal.com]

Good lord...after that email you slammed me with, what the hell do I have to hide!?!??!??!

My answer is no. Not to that extent. Actually, I always roll my eyes and giggle when reading something along those lines.

But I have heard women actually have it. I think I even saw it on "Sex and the City" and who I am to question THAT show??! Ha ha ha.

[tinyholidays.livejournal.com]

Yeah, no. But, of course, when I'm getting that worked up, I'm usually not just standing about in a skirt, if you know what I mean, lolz.

I'd definitely put that down as porny exaggeration.

[nmalfoy.livejournal.com]

Thank you! Imagine how great things would be with them in charge. No more bears!

Sorry so late!

[authenticjoy.livejournal.com]

Er, want the menopause answer?

No?

Didn't think so. Oh, well. :P